
Dale Ross Ogden was born 7 November 1919 in

Dale Ross Ogden was born 7 November 1919 in

We have added to and changed our house much during the years, as our family increased and grew, always keeping in mind that it isn’t just for walls and a roof that make a home, but that “it takes a heap of living in a house to make it a home.” So each brick and stone, each chair and table, as well as the thumb marks on the wall have a story attached to them.
Your walls are of brick,
Shabby and worn.
Your ceilings are high and straight
The fire place glows where it has for years.
With a big fat log on the grate.
Your window and doors
Are not uniform size
Some were added as years went by.
The porch is long, wide and cool:
The roof is gabled and high.
In this house in 1910
We made our first love nest.
It was here that our babies came one by one,
To parents who were truly blessed.
The echoes of their laughter, still are there,
And the sounds of their pattering feet
Up the stairs to their trundle beds
Are memories fond and sweet.
Dear old home you’re a haven of peace and rest
In the moon light you play your role
To all of us who loved you best
Home sweet home – you have a soul.


I have worked in the church since I was thirteen years old, taking charge of a Sunday school class at that time. I had been secretary in Primary and counselor in Mutual before I was married and left the Joseph ward.
Our social events and parties were different in our small community than those in larger towns and later years, but we had many enjoyable times as growing girls and boys. We learned to skate, play ball, ride horse, fly kites, walk stilts, wade and swim, and minds. For more quiet and refined parties we would have oyster suppers, ice cream, or honey or molasses candy pulls. Or we would have popcorn and parched corn parties. They were all fun.
One outstanding summer party was the bull-berry gathering. We would take our buckets and walk about two miles to the meadows down by the river. Here we worked hard, breaking limbs from the big bushes, and placed them on canvas blankets, then with sticks we beat the berries off and filled our buckets. Even our lunch pails were filled after we ate our noon meal. We were tired but happy girls who trudged home at dusk with our heavy loads of bright red berries to make jelly for school lunches the following winter.
When I was about eight years old, I heard and saw for the first time, a phonograph. It was a rather peculiar machine, having roll records. We paid five cents to have the rubber tubes put in our ears, and hear two or three tunes. One I distinctly remember was “The Swannee River.”
We had a very happy home, and our parents were kind and understanding, but firm with us children. We were expected to obey and to do our share of the tasks in the home. We were taught to pray when we were very young. In fact, I can’t remember when I first knelt in prayer at my mother’s knee or by my little bed, then we always had our family prayer at least one a day.
A night if I was a really good little girl, and got ready for bed willingly, I was invited, maybe, to spend a short time in bed with my father before my mother retired. This was my real treat, to be wrapped in papa’s arms and exchange our little secrets, and until I was quite a grown girl I still loved to sit on his knee or the arm of his big rocking chair, and comb his hair and caress him a little when he relaxed for the evening after his hard day on the farm. Lucky is the little girl who has a wise and loving father, and a beautiful sweet mother to teach the gospel by their very fine inspiring way.
When I was about fourteen years old my father was the parent in charge of the ward dances and I was allowed to go with him and mother sometimes. I shall never forget the thrill I had when he so politely chose me for a quadrille, and how much care he took to teach me how to swing gracefully, change partners on time, and stand erectly like a real lady when it wasn’t my turn to dance.

I was born in Joseph,
My grandparents on my father’s side were John Ross and Mary Sullivan. They were of Scottish descent, respectively, my father being born in
My birthplace was a two-story adobe house. My father and brothers made the adobes and helped with the building. It still stands on my father’s farm sight about one half mile from town, school and meetinghouse.
When I was born there were seven other living children in the family, four having died in infancy. Also another baby younger than myself died soon after birth. So I grew up, one of eight, five girls and three boys in our home.
I was a normal size baby with much black curly hair and dark blue eyes. (My hair always remained very black until I became gray.) My mother suffered a relapse when I was a few days old, and was very ill for several weeks. I was blessed and named by my father on December 21, 1890. He named me Mary Olive.
I grew up much as other children do on a farm, following my older brothers and sister around at their daily tasks, learning to do the things they did. I could climb all the crooked trees on the farm, and help herd the cows before I was old enough to go to school. I could also milk our old pet cow before my school days began.
When I was five years old, my oldest brother John W. and my oldest sister Netta were both married. Those were eventful days for a little girl, seeing a beautiful white cashmere wedding dress made. Then there were two big wedding dinners with tall cakes in the center of the tables and goose and dressing with all the trimmings.
That same year my father had a addition built on our house, a parlor and two bedrooms, a pantry and a large basement or cellar where the milk, butter and cheese were kept. Also in the winter our vegetables and apples were stored there.
Our home was now large enough for our comfort. All the young people of our ages were invited there for parties all through our lives.
I began school when I was six years old in the two-room school building which was then quite new. My first teacher was Stella Jaques from
I was baptized in the
On July 24, 1897, I went to
To be continued. . .

Ted Ross Ogden was born 10 October 1921 in
Mary Olive Ross Ogden
When I married Steve, Grandpa had already passed away, so I never had the opportunity to meet him. However; from the stories I’ve heard, I believe I will recognize him when I see him, and I am looking forward to that day.
I did know Grandma and shared many special experiences with her. When Steve and I had been married a year, we moved to Tarzana, California, and Steve went into the carpet business with his dad. In the winter months, Grandma Mary lived in an apartment located right behind the carpet store, and in the summer, she went to her home in Richfield. After Steve’s graduation from the Y in the summer of 1967, Grandma was in Richfield, so Steve, our first child, Chad, and I stayed in her apartment in Tarzana for a few months until she returned. I will always remember her comfortable home and “things” that she had left behind for the season. When she returned a few months later, we had moved into one of Dale’s rental homes about two houses away from her apartment. We were in the same ward with Grandma, and Dale served as our Bishop. One day during church, I asked her why she only mouthed the words to the hymns, and she told me she had lost her singing voice a few years earlier, but she said, “I love the Hymns, and Heavenly Father knows I’m doing my best.”
Grandma did do her best in everything she did. I was always impressed with her graciousness, her grooming, and her strength—a very good example of an “elect” lady.
Grandma and I became Visiting Teaching partners. We shared some unique experiences together. She was always prepared when I honked for her each month. One sister we visited in the Ward was a sweet, caring woman, but lacked refinement and domestic skills. Each month we experienced something new and different when we visited LaVerda. One time, the cat was upon the counter eating the cold grease from the frying pan on the stove. Another time, while the rabbits were hopping through the house leaving pellets in their tracks, the chickens were scratching and strutting through the clutter on the kitchen floor. Grandma kept her composure through all of this. The funniest was when LaVerda seated us with our backs to a broken kitchen window, and while Grandma was giving her the Relief Society message for the month, a cow put her head through the window and bellowed. I thought Grandma would have a heart attack. Again she regained her composure and finished the lesson in a very dignified manner. When we got in the car to leave, Grandma looked at me and busted out laughing!! We had the best time together.
I’m sure I seemed a little clumsy to Grandma as I cared for my first newborn baby. Periodically, she gave me little bits of advice to help me out. Remember, back then, we were doing cloth diapers, pins, and rubber pants. One day Dale gave me a quick hint on diapering techniques. Shortly thereafter, Grandma Mary told me I was doing it all wrong, and both Dale and Grandma were sure their way was right. Dale taught me up front that there were three ways to do things, the right way, the wrong way, and Walt Ogden’s way! I learned quickly that I had married into a family with strong opinions. Steve has since told me that Dale was a lot like Grandpa Walt, was he???
One summer when I was 14-years-old, I went to Marysvale to help Grandpa on the ranch. I enjoyed riding in the truck with him and listening to him tell stories. I enjoyed that ride also because he always stopped for Ice Cream. Grandpa usually had a dog tied to a long leash in the back of the truck. One hot summer’s day, while we were getting Ice Cream, the dog jumped out of the truck and went underneath to find some shade. After finishing our Ice Cream we got back in the truck and drove to Richfield. When we got there, the only thing attached to the rope was a little ball of fur!
I admired Grandpa’s work ethic and drive. Although Grandpa was up there in years, he could still pitch double the hay that I could at age 15, and I was a big boy at that age. Of course, his technique was much better than mine.
Grandpa liked nice cars. He had a brand new 1949 Cadillac. There were times he hauled sheep in the back seat. When asked why he did it his response was, “They paid for the car; they ought to be able to ride in it!”
There have been times when someone offered a compliment to me about one of my kids. I’ve found myself repeating one of Grandpa’s famous sayings that I have heard Dad say many times as well, “It’s a poor sire that can’t improve the herd!”

At the close of his (Walter’s) second year at B.Y.U. we became engaged and were married October 5, 1910 in the
In early 1960, we were reminded it was time to celebrate our fiftieth or golden anniversary. So during the months we planned with our family and on September 3rd, we had a lovely family party with a banquet. There was an open house entertainment at Olive’s home in the evening with more than five hundred guests. It was truly a very special day for us. All of our children with their companions, and all of our grandchildren were with us to celebrate. There was a very lovely program given during the banquet hour, and in the evening our children helped us receive the many guests who called.
After father and I were alone, he invited me numerous times during the summers to go again up on the dear old sheep range and again ride up to the mountain top to watch the sunsets. Life is very much like the climbing of a mountain: we must reach the heights before we can behold the view. So in like manner do we all (make the) same journey. How can we afford then to judge each other? We must consider the distance we have climbed. We don’t all reach the same pinnacle of wisdom. God’s promise, that the higher we climb, the smaller become the things of earth, like fears, doubts, envy, selfishness, and faultfinding. Let these things never come to our dear and lovely family.

Walter Ross Ogden was born 18 September 1917 in
Mary Olive Ross Ogden
Grandpa Walter Ogden gave his daughter, Mary Jane, 3 sheep when she was baptized. These sheep had triplets. WhenMary Jane needed some money she would ask Grandpa to sell one of the sheep. He would then send her $50.00. She wasn’t sure he was actually selling the sheep, but the money always came. Grandpa was very generous. When she got married he gave her a cow. The money from “selling” the sheep was especially helpful after Mary Jane and Eldon Kloepfer married. Eldon was in the Navy and was stationed in Detroit, Chicago and other places around the country. Whenever he got stationed in a new location, Mary Jane would ask her dad to sell one of the sheep so she could go find an apartment and be near Eldon. Imagine...Mary Jane was just 20 years old when she was traveling like this!

My father believed in honest labor. He had no sympathy for the idler. The county road crew who stood around "leaning on their shovels" while one man at a time filled the pothole always got a comment from him as he went by. He was not one to see something to be done and not get busy doing it. I remember that during the Depression when the WPA was instituted, my father thought the country was going to hell. "
At that time, the WPA paid an able bodied man a dollar-fifty a day, and Dad had a hard time convincing some of them to work at the sheep herd for forty-five dollars a month with their board included. Of course, they had to be convinced that the fringe benefits of tending sheep were worth it. Walter was a generous employer—a man's family never wanted for food or help in getting to town or to the doctor, while the man was gone away. We were always impressed with the importance of taking care of such needs, and they often called on him for a few dollars, or we went by their homes with things from the garden, or a bag of flour, or some mutton or pork when it was butchered.

Today is my father's birthday. He was born on September 3, 1888. He was the youngest child in his family—he had 7 brothers and sisters and 4 half sisters and brothers. I didn't know his mother but I knew his father, and was with him when he died. My Dad was a loving father, and grandfather. I wish you had known him. He had a very personal relationship with each child and grandchild. I always felt very secure with him as a child, and when I was an adult, I felt that I could depend on my Dad to help me in any difficulty. I still have a blank check in my wallet that I have had for perhaps 50 years or more, a check on a bank which no longer exists, but which my father gave me and said that if I ever needed to, I could write it out, sign my name under his and get some money—the bank would honor it. Of course, that is really only symbolic of his caring for me, and of course I have never intended to use it. But it does represent to me that he felt responsible for my welfare, and I could depend on him. He was a man who had many friends, and he cared for many people. We used to say that every time Dad went out to the sheep herd, he took an extra sack of flour to our Aunt Till in
Yet, my Dad was one who didn't let his children get away with wrongdoing of any kind.
My Dad
My father was a worker—he thought that "man should earn his bread by the sweat of his brow." He was a charitable man, and we put up with many wanderers whom he befriended if they wanted to work for food and a place to sleep. But he had no patience if a man wouldn't work. I remember that one evening a "tramp" came walking along the road by the ranch when Dad was milking the cows, and he said, "I sure could use a glass of that milk."
Dad got up from the stool and said, "Come on and finish milking this cow, and you can have all the milk you can drink and plenty of bread to go with it." The guy said, "I wouldn't milk a cow if I never got any milk." So Dad said, "All right, then, go on down the canyon—maybe you'll find a better offer." It was ten miles to the next ranch.
Yes, my father was a person that everybody liked and everybody in
"I remember Grandpa drivin' me up the road from the ranch towards Big Rock Candy Mountain to run some cow back in his white '59 Caddy. He put me out on the side of the road behind 10-15 cows and he drove beside me and the cows. Well, hundreds of mosquitoes were all over my arms, face, back, legs, and me sayin' 'Grandpa, they are eatin' me up!' and him sayin' 'Watch that cow, she's tryin' to go around you and don't worry. They won't eat all of you up, you're a young man.'
My Memories of Grandma
I loved sitting on the porch of her house where she had a hummingbird feeder and we could witness the wonders of
nature. She loved all things, big and small. She was a great optimist and tried hard to keep herself happy for all the years she was without her love, Grandpa.
She was a wonderful cook and often came over to our house with something she had made to share. She loved to read and became a very well educated Grandma. Her love of poetry, which she learned from a young age, stayed with her all her life. I remember sitting by her in her last days, she was quiet and hardly talking and then she would sit straight up and recite one of her wonderful poems, all the words to perfection. She talked a lot about her father, who must have been a wonderful man. I think he was the one who inspired her desire for learning. She was gracious and warm, frank and direct. Oh what an example to all of us of dedication to her family and fellowmen.

Richfield was a small, warm springs town, pretty and cozy, and its special attraction to us who lived farther south, in Joseph, was that it was the ‘county seat’ and the large town in our county and had red soil, which if it got on our new white dresses they just seemed to never come clean. It also had stores where father could buy oranges, sometimes when he went to pay his taxes or when we went to conference.
"I went to stay for about a month at the ranch early one summer before the rest of my family came for the July 4th holiday. I often woke up early and followed Grandpa around on a horse as he did his chores. One morning Grandpa said, 'Come on, Sal, we're going fishing!' I asked where the fishing poles were. Grandpa said, 'We don't need fishing poles!' He took me to the irrigation ditch where some mountain trout had gotten in the ditch. Grandpa started catching them with his hands. We took three trout home and Grandma cooked them for dinner. It was the first time I ever had trout!"
"I think My kids are so tired of me telling them about having mutton for
dinner..... I can't get away with that one any more. I guess my very
favorite is riding the two draft horses Dick and Dale, at the old ranch.
Now that was a mountain of horse."

Mary Lou took this picture in
I have some very special memories of Grandma Ogden during her last years, maybe because I only lived about three blocks from her. Helping to take care of her during her last years was very special to me. Sometimes she would call and ask me to help her with her bath or go grocery shopping for her or to take her to get her hair done. I spent many hours sitting on her front porch just talking to her and listening to her tell me stories about my dad, who I never knew, as I was only six months old when he was taken from our family.. Having her to my home for dinner was always special. I remember very well the day that she died. A few months before she died she spent a few days in the Richfield Hospital and I happened to be working there at that time. One night they brought her her dinner, which was quite a lot for a 96-year-old lady. She had me come to her room and said, "Tricia, I just can't eat all this food this time of night. Would you please have them bring me some bread and milk. If that is a good enough meal for President Kimball, then it is good enough for me."
Another special memory of Grandma was on her 91st birthday. My children and I went to see her and she gave my boys, ages 12 and 10 each a set of scriptures signed by her. My son, Ted, remembers very well saying to her, "Grandma, it's your birthday, we should give you presents." She said, "No, I'm 91 years old and I can give presents if I want to." My boys still have those scriptures, and were proud to take them on their missions with them.
A memory from Tricia Ogden Meacham (8/27/2009)
"Grandma used to always come over to our house and watch the fireworks with us on the front lawn. She would bring a big batch of her famous candy Cheerios. She also made the best banana bread in the world!! I have that recipe and her Joy of Cooking cookbook with some of her hand written recipes. I will bring it (to the 2010 Reunion). It's a treasure!!!"Sugar coated Cheerios!Equal parts of brown sugar and butter melted in a large saucepan. When the mixture begins to boil, dump in a bunch of Cheerios and stir well. Pour out on a tray to cool. Yum!!

“I think again of your two years away at school when I would go each Saturday to the post office for your letter, short but sweet. I think you always told me you loved me and enclosed a line of kisses.”


Anna was born 24 July 1911,
"Isn't she a cutie? Her daddy called her Ann and her mother modified it with Anna. An excellent disposition, so sweet and kind, everyone was her friend. This she never lost. Monday was the day of her birth, at six in the morning."
Mary met Walter when she was fifteen. She immediately told her girlfriend that she would marry him someday. Walter and Mary married October 5, 1910, in the
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Phyllis – strong willed, determined, think right and nothing can change you, be sure you’re right then go ahead. You are a helpful little girl, clean little house keeper. Don’t find fault with sisters and brothers. God didn’t want you all alike, be patient and kind.
Ross – my first son you meant so much to me when you came at a time when the world was in turmoil, and it seemed as tho my companion in life might be compelled to cross the ocean to fight for our country and with three sisters you were a welcome boy. Be a true
Dale – a boy of strong convictions, ambitious tho rather hard to please at times, Be reasonable and put aside the sulky disposition it will not get you friends, but enemies direct your ambitions in the right way, take advise from those who know more than you, be kind to your sisters. Choose right and go forward.
Ted – quiet, patient, thinking little boy, many genius minds have been as unassuming as yours and never a sweeter disposition tho teasing had been hard on you and generally make you say the cross things you have said. Be a man strong of character as Daddy and grow straight with hands busy and not in pockets.
Mary Jayne – Little Blackie and Dorothy little Blondie. All the family have enjoyed your baby days and ways, your dirty faces and tousled heads and Big sisters have done much for you hope you will grow with kindness for them.
Mother
Hello Everyone, July 2nd, 2010 is the date that has been set for an Ogden Family Reunion in Richfield Utah. I have been asked to arrange hotel accommodations for the reunion. Please forward this e-mail to anyone who you know of that might not have received it. I would like to ask the heads of each family to get a count on how many will likely attend what room types would be needed. I need a preliminary count so I can get some space reserved. I hope this e-mail finds you all well, Sincerely, Rikard rikardpearson@yahoo.com |
Remember how we always looked for sheep as we drove down the canyon from the ranch on the way to
Well, looking for sheep and finding some was what kept us from getting to
Mother and Dad sat out on the front porch waiting for meeting to be over and for someone to walk by so they could find out the news of the new Bishopric. After a while, the neighbors came along from church and told us all the news. So, as Mother and Dad sat there talking about how the new men would do, here came the very men they talking about - the new Bishopric. They came walking down the block and Dad said to Mother, “They’re coming here to ask you to be the Relief Society President.”
“Oh, no,” Mother said, pleased any way that he thought she would be considered. “They have a job for you.”
“They had better not!” said Dad, panicky.
Sure enough, the new Bishopric and his Counselors walked right in through the gate and up the walk.
“Well,” said Dad, “They sure know how to pick good men for a big job. Sorry to be too late to get to church today, but we had to chase a few sheep.”
“Brother Walt,” said the new Bishop, “we would like to ask you to take on a big job for us --“
Dad’s face stopped in mid smile and he sort of gulped.
“I don’t know what kind of job I could do for you – I’m just a sheep herder, Bishop.” He said, sort of trembling.
“I know you will do a good job. We would like to ask you to be the husband of the Relief Society President,” said the Bishop.
Well, you could hear the sigh of relief and the gasp of surprise from Dad and Mother at the same time. Of course, both of them accepted and Mother served for __ years (this was blank) in that capacity with Dad being a perfectly capable husband of the Relief Society President
This came in an email recently. Thought you'd all enjoy reading it:
"At church on Sunday, Lorene Reynolds came up to us and started to tell us a story. We knew she was from Marysvale and knew Edna, but she had a story about Grandpa Ogden.
Her father (Lawrence Hamel) had to have his legs amputated and had a hard time walking with the prosthetics. He wanted to run for Piute County Recorder, but someone said to him that he could never do it because he couldn't walk well enough. One day, Grandpa Ogden came to their house and said to
"I wanted to share this with all of you because I think it's a wonderful story about Grandpa Ogden. He and Grandma Ogden were always so willing to help other people."
Marsha LaFirenza Ogden (wife of William J. "Bill" Ogden)